Egypt Opens Gaza Border

Egypt says it will allow Palestinians to cross its border until further notice. I think Egypt should go one step further and take back its old province. Gaza was once a part of Egypt. Let it be so again. That way it would fall on Egypt to stop Hamas’s aggression against Israel. There are no Jewish settlements left in the Gaza Strip, so Israel has no interest in the province apart from securing its own citizens from rocket attacks. And frankly, I think Palestinians elsewhere would do better without the crazy men of Gaza.

Flotilla Activists Linked to Terror Groups

Israel makes the case before the UN Human Rights Council. But will any of the fine exemplars of human rights—like Saudi Arabia, Russia, Nigeria, Cuba, and China—listen to Israel? Or will they simply follow routine and apply one set of rules for Israel and another for themselves?

Another thing that annoys me is Turkey. Now the Turks demand that the world condemn Israel, they even compare the death of nine armed activists to the terror attacks in America on 11 September 2001! This from the same Turkish government that denies the Armenian Genocide and systematically oppresses the Kurds.

A Ban on Recreational Drugs Promotes Crime

Former European Commissioner Frits Bolkestein says a ban on recreational drugs promotes crime and is bad for public health:

Drugs will not disappear simply because they are illegal. They will always be around. A minority of users will get into trouble. Drugs are far less dangerous, however, than alcohol and tobacco. Our country is home to 13 times more alcoholics than drug addicts, and alcohol claims 15 times more lives than drugs do. Tobacco costs 333 times as many lives. Because drugs can be dangerous to people’s health, regulation will remain necessary. Drug crime, on the other hand, is something we can do without.

He is right.

Carl Bildt Is Wrong to Criticise Israel

“It is important that all this does not degenerate into anti-Israeli hysteria,” Sweden’s Foreign Minister Carl Bildt says. Moments later he adds fuel to the hysteria. Everything is Israel’s fault. He doesn’t even mention Hamas’s war on civilian Israelis.

I can’t help but wondering what the Swedish government would do if Denmark or Norway fired thousands of rockets into Sweden every year.

Don’t Forget the Armenian Genocide

The very same Turkish politicians who are upset about nine dead “peace activists” actively deny that the genocide seen in these pictures ever happened. I suggest we keep this in mind and remind the Turks about this genocide whenever they try to make us believe they care about human rights. We should also remember that Turkey attacked the Kurds only two weeks ago.

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Israel Had No Choice

So says Binyamin Netanyahu. Well, we always have a choice. In Israel’s case, it’s probably between war and death. Not a pleasant choice, but a choice nonetheless.

Yes, I’m a libertarian—even in the philosophical debate on free will.

Dalby Quarry

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Just a picture I snapped with my iPhone. The old quarry in Dalby—a few kilometres from Lund in southernmost Sweden—is a popular place for swimmers.

If Jewdar Ran the Israeli Foreign Ministry

Heeb has a good idea for Israel:

It’s not too late to save the situation, however. All Israel needs to do is announce, in big, big, big letters, that it is lifting the blockade. Then, after “Israel Lifts Blockade!” in big print, will come the fine print that mentions that all humanitarian aid will pass through Ashdod to Gaza.

There are several possibilities that arise from this:

  1. People see the headline, say “Well, that’s reasonable of Israel,” and don’t read the fine print.
  2. People see the headline, read the fine print, don’t know where Ashdod is, and still think Israel is reasonable.
  3. People see the headline, read the fine print, say “Israel hasn’t changed anything, humanitarian aid could already reach Gaza through Ashdod” at which point Israel says “Aha!”

Perhaps Israel Should Stop Trying to Please Europe?

The past few days I have had intense correspondence with friends in Israel. One friend suggested Israel should stop trying to win the sympathies of Europeans. Europe seems determined to neglect the suffering of the Israelis, he says. No one is denying that the Palestinians suffer, too. But Europe refuses to see that Israel is fighting a war with Hamas, an Islamist terror organisation deliberately targeting civilians in both Israel and Gaza itself. Instead, Europe is actively ignoring Hamas’s crimes while turning everything Israel does into a severe breach of international law. The only way to please the Europeans would be for Israeli Jews to silently accept being forced into exile or under threat of a second Holocaust. This is not something the Israeli propagandists have made up; Hamas is very clear about what it wants. Their charter clearly states that the destruction of the Jewish people is the organisation’s goal.

Turkey Embraces Minimalism

No, the Turks are not about to refrain from adverbs. However, Turkey’s Deputy Prime Minister Bulent Arinc says economic and military co-operation with Israel will be reduced to a minimum. I know his intension is to hurt Israel, but I prefer to see it as a healthy devotion to minimalism. It’s very progressive in these days of mobile text-messaging and microblogging. In fact, I think all politicians should try to make as little as possible. If only the Turkish government could keep to political minimalism domestically, too.

Helen Thomas Says Jews Should Leave Israel

White House correspondent Helen Thomas says Jews should leave Palestine and return “home”, which, according to her, is Poland and Germany. In other words, Jews should surrender their only homeland and once again become second-class citizens in the countries that tried to exterminate the Jewish people. Make no mistake; Helen Thomas is an evil anti-Semite. After centuries of oppression, people like her still consider Jews a problem to be solved.

Personally, I am convinced that for the Jewish people, it is either Israel or death. There will be a culturally vibrant and politically important Jewish Diaspora in the future, too; but to secure a Jewish future, the Jewish people need their homeland. And the Jewish homeland has always been Eretz Yisrael, the Land of Israel.

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Update: An online poll asks, “Should the White House revoke the press credential of Helen Thomas?” My answer is yes.

Global Wave of Anti-Semitism

We have seen it before: the pictures of the Star of David next to the Nazi Swastika, the burning of the Israeli flag, and the harassment of Diaspora Jews. The methods used are deliberately picked to hurt Jews. If not to tell the Jews that the Holocaust was right, why would anyone place Nazi symbols next to the most common symbol of Judaism?

Turkish Government Says Hamas Are ‘Resistance Fighters’

Turkish Prime Minister Recep Tayyip Erdogan has completely lost it. Now he says that Hamas—an organisation that considers Jewish children legitimate targets and has fired thousands of rockets into civilian areas—is not a terror group but a democratic party of “resistance fighters” who “defend their land”.

Meanwhile, the very same Turkish leader continues to oppress the Kurds in eastern Turkey. Whenever they try to gain independence or demand some basic civil right, they are declared enemies of the state and sent to prison.

Four Israeli Soldiers Were Taken Hostage on Turkish Ship

A Lebanese photographer has testified that activists on the Gaza-bound Turkish ship seized four Israeli marines before other commandos stormed aboard using live ammunition.

New pictures show how Israeli soldiers were beaten and stabbed by violent mob on board the Turkish ship.

There were several ships in the flotilla. Violence erupted on one ship only. This ship belonged to a Turkish Islamist organisation with close links to Hamas. The people aboard this ship were not peace activists, they were religious fascists who sang songs about killing Jews and tried to do just that when they had an opportunity.

Vesterbro, Copenhagen

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I had a long walk through the Danish capital today. The sun shone and the temperature was just perfect. Snapped this picture when I passed through a quiet residential area in Vesterbro I have never been in before.

Who Is the Better Liberal?

Dutch politicians argue about who is the better liberal. In Sweden, politicians are normally trying to be the better socialist. The party with the least faith in the citizens wins. But things are slowly getter better here, too. It would be nice with a Dutch-style battle of the liberals, though.

Why Jews Love Israel

I don’t agree with Andrew Sullivan’s negative attitude towards Israel, but at least he seems to have some understanding of why many Jews feel so passionately about the land. Like all other nationalisms, Zionism is based primarily on emotions. These emotions are not always rational, but that doesn’t necessarily make them any less genuine.

Judaism itself is centred about the Land of Israel. It is not possible to be any kind of Jew and deny that fact. It is important to stress that not all Jews agree on Zionism, and ever more Jews disagree on the State of Israel, but most recognise that Israel is the only land we have. It is what the Jewish faith is about. We don’t have a saviour to place of faith with—we have a tiny piece of land in the Middle East that the religious believe God promised the Israelites and that the secularists see as our refuge from minority life and oppression.

For better or worse, Israel is the one country the Jewish people can call its own.

Anti-Semitism Is Good

What can you expect from an extremist academic who compares gays to animals? Hating Jews comes natural to these people. (The link goes to a Swedish blog entry written by Erik Svensson, biology professor at Lund University. A well-established hater of everything even remotely liberal.)

Blair: ‘Israel Has the Right to Inspect What Goes into Gaza’

“There’s no question that there are rockets fired from Gaza and that there are people in Gaza who want to kill innocent Israelis,” Tony Blair says in a televised interview. “When it comes to security, I’m 100 percent on Israel’s side. Israel has the right to inspect what goes into Gaza.”

Nice to hear at least one European politician talking about the crimes of Hamas. All we hear from others is the one-sided condemnation of Israel. Listening to the mainstream political debate, one might be excused for thinking that Hamas is a peaceful organisation and the Israelis are hurting people for purely sadistic reason.

Arab Men Told to Sexually Harass Israeli Women

A female lawyer on television encourages Arab men to sexually harass Israeli women as a form of resistance. It seems too bizarre to be true, but it is true. I can hear the my antagonists say that this is not anti-Semitism because (1) Arabs are a Semitic people and (2) it must be allowed to criticise Israel.

Rosie O’Donnell Defends Helen Thomas

Rosie O’Donnell says Jews can go back to Poland and Germany because the ovens are not there anymore. To tell black Americans they should go back to Africa is wrong because they are not occupying land, she says. But why talk about black people when it is the white people of America that lives on land once taken by force? I suggest all white Americans go back to Europe. Let’s start with Rosie. She can live in the cottage her poor ancestors left behind.

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The Special Treatment of Israel

Pink News writes about Madrid Pride’s decision to ban Israeli participation. One commenter writes:

The aid flotilla and the Israeli actions have nothing to do with the Gay Pride celebrations. It is our own struggles to achieve greater tolerance and acceptance in society that we are celebrating. Should we be banning Israelis from a Gay Pride event because of something done by their Government and Military? Would we then ban the British and Americans and Australians because of the Iraq War? Would we ban Chinese because of their government’s repression in Tibet? Where would this end?

Many have made the same observation. China and other countries with disputed areas never get the same treatment as Israel. The Jewish state is singled out amongst the nations, and I think it has to do with Israel being Jewish. Arab occupation in North Africa is rarely mentioned, but Jewish settlements are condemned all the time.

Pentecostalists Offended by Gay Camp Advertisement

A group of gay Christians is organizing a summer camp. When the group wanted to place an advertisement in Sweden’s largest Christian newspaper, Dagen, the editor-in-chief Elisabeth Sandlund said no. “A large portion of our readership would be offended by an ad of this kind which deals with open homosexuality,” she says.

Closeted homosexuality and self-hatred have never been a problem to Dagen’s Pentecostal readership. But when gay people show their love in public without shame, it really turns their stomachs. Personally, I am offended by homophobic Pentecostalism.

West Africa’s Centre of Gay Oppression

Afrol News writes about the moral decline of a Dakar:

In colonial times, Senegal’s metropolis Dakar was famous for its open and tolerated homosexual prostitution market, and as late as in the 1970s, as many as 17 percent of Senegalese men admitted having had homosexual experiences. Now, Dakar is West Africa’s centre of gay oppression.

A sad, sad story that shows how fast a liberal society can deteriorate. Liberty and equality must be fought for in every generation.

Taliban Hang 7-Year-Old Boy

Another low for the Afghan Islamists. Afghan officials say the Taliban accused the boy of spying for America and hanged him from a tree in southern Afghanistan. The provincial governor says the killing happened only days after the boy’s grandfather spoke out against the Taliban in their home village.

Stalin to Blame for the Violence in Kyrgyzstan

Something that looks like a civil war is going on in Kyrgyzstan. Reports talk about ethnic cleansing. But what is behind the unrest? The answer is Stalin and communist ignorance about ethnic identities. From The Economist:

The Fergana Valley, where most of the killing happened, was divided arbitrarily by Stalin in the 1920s among Uzbekistan, Kyrgyzstan and Tajikistan. As a result, the Kyrgyz Soviet republic was left with a sizeable Uzbek population, the Uzbek Soviet republic with a Tajik population, and so on. While the Soviet Union existed and the republics were part of the same country, this made little practical difference. But when the Soviet Union fell apart, these artificially created borders became final, separating newly independent states and fomenting ethnic tensions.

It is time for some pragmatic identity politics.

How the Christian Right Is Killing Marriage

From Newsweek: “Thanks largely to the efforts of same-sex-marriage advocates, heterosexual couples have more unmarried rights to partnership now than ever.”

Oops. The Christian Right’s fight against marriage equality is slowly making marriage irrelevant for heterosexuals. Had they given same-sex couples the right to marry, they would have preserved marriage as a special institution. Now they are killing that very idea of marriage.

Discovering Twitter

I have had a Twitter account for some time now, but to be honest, I didn’t really see the point of that particular social medium until I downloaded the perfect application for my iPhone. My new social-media philosophy is simply that if it’s not easy to do on iPhone, it’s not worth doing at all. I do most of my Facebooking (yes, it’s a verb now) on my iPhone, and how much I use other social media depends entirely on the application available for my handheld friend.

If you find me amongst your new followers, it’s because your other writing interest me and I’m curious about your tweets. If you don’t know me from Facebook or the blogosphare, I’m probably interested in you because of your religious or political views.

Wrong Body, Wrong Life

Sara-Jane Cromwell has written a book about what it is like to be a transsexual in Ireland. I think the interview with her in the Irish Time is good, and it is nice to see a transsexual woman who is not hiding her past, which seems to be the unfortunate norm. But there is nothing shameful about being born with a condition where gender identity and biological sex do not match. You go, girl!

My Day in Pictures

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The rural landscape in southern Sweden seen through the car window.

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The view of the Sound seen from Helsingborg.

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The mediaeval tower Kärnan in Helsingborg.

My Day in Pictures

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I began the day at the Öresund Bridge in southern Malmö, where I had this spectacular view of the Sound. I was there to talk about safe sex and gay issues.

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Today, the local council for the Malmö borough of Husie had its last meeting before the summer holiday. Tonight, I, along with the other councillors, was given a tour of the new building for the local administrative department. It looks fine, and I will appreciate the new and modern setting for our meetings in the autumn. Until now, we have had our public meetings at Höjaskolan, a large council-run school. Not the best place for these kinds of meetings.

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After the tour, we were served a dinner and some wine. All in all, it was a good day. Not much time for blogging, though.

My Day in Pictures

For the past few summers, I have been working with a project for the Swedish Federation for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Rights (RFSL). Basically, I spend my days driving to various destinations—mostly in the countryside in southern Sweden—and talk to people about HIV, safe sex, and gay issues generally. Since I’m on the road most of the day and my normal routine at the university is disrupted, I’m not always updated on the latest news. The blogging suffers consequently. So, for the time being, you will see some entries entitled “My Day in Pictures” instead. To most of you, this is nonsense. But I know that some readers like my pictures and the glimpses of Sweden they show. Enjoy or ignore, it’s up to you. Here are today’s pictures.

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On my way to work, I snapped a picture of one of Malmö’s canals.

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Bored to death with dumb rural radio talk shows, I snapped this picture while driving.

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I found a very remote rest area, hidden in a small forest. Perfect for a break when you don’t want to hear or speak to anyone.

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Back in Malmö, I snapped a picture of the sunset seen against some buildings.

Europe’s Determination to Decline

Bjørn Lomborg makes a disturbing observation:

Unfortunately, it seems as if Europe has decided that if it can’t lead the world in prosperity, it should try to lead the world in decline. By stubbornly pursuing an approach that has failed spectacularly in the past, Europe seems likely to consign itself to an ever-dwindling economic position in the world, with fewer jobs and less prosperity. Even the most optimistic-minded would struggle to find a silver lining in that outlook.

God the Libertarian?

The opening chapter in David Boaz’s book The Libertarian Reader: Classic and Contemporary Writings from Lao Tzu to Milton Friedman (1997) begins with 1 Samuel 8 from the Hebrew Bible, which deals with the Israelites who ask their ageing leader for a new king to rule over them:

When Samuel grew old, he appointed his sons as judges for Israel. The name of his firstborn was Joel and the name of his second was Abijah, and they served at Beersheba. But his sons did not walk in his ways. They turned aside after dishonest gain and accepted bribes and perverted justice.

So all the elders of Israel gathered together and came to Samuel at Ramah. They said to him, “You are old, and your sons do not walk in your ways; now appoint a king to lead us, such as all the other nations have.”

But when they said, “Give us a king to lead us,” this displeased Samuel; so he prayed to the Lord. And the Lord told him: “Listen to all that the people are saying to you; it is not you they have rejected, but they have rejected me as their king. As they have done from the day I brought them up out of Egypt until this day, forsaking me and serving other gods, so they are doing to you. Now listen to them; but warn them solemnly and let them know what the king who will reign over them will do.”

Samuel told all the words of the Lord to the people who were asking him for a king. He said, “This is what the king who will reign over you will do: He will take your sons and make them serve with his chariots and horses, and they will run in front of his chariots. Some he will assign to be commanders of thousands and commanders of fifties, and others to plough his ground and reap his harvest, and still others to make weapons of war and equipment for his chariots. He will take your daughters to be perfumers and cooks and bakers. He will take the best of your fields and vineyards and olive groves and give them to his attendants. He will take a tenth of your grain and of your vintage and give it to his officials and attendants. Your menservants and maidservants and the best of your cattle and donkeys he will take for his own use. He will take a tenth of your flocks, and you yourselves will become his slaves. When that day comes, you will cry out for relief from the king you have chosen, and the Lord will not answer you in that day.”

But the people refused to listen to Samuel. “No!” they said. “We want a king over us. Then we will be like all the other nations, with a king to lead us and to go out before us and fight our battles.”

When Samuel heard all that the people said, he repeated it before the Lord. The Lord answered, “Listen to them and give them a king.”

Is God having Samuel argue in favour of political libertarianism?

Republican Tabloids Caught by Royal Frenzy

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Sweden’s two major tabloid newspapers are officially republican. Both socialist Aftonbladet and liberal Expressen say they want to replace the monarch with a president elected by parliamentarians. That is the official rhetoric. In reality, these newspapers have developed a symbiotic relationship with the royals, and today this is more obvious then ever. The thing about the monarchy in this country is that most people love it but few have the courage to say it. The journalists are no different.

My Day in Pictures

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I spent the day at the Baltic Sea.

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The Swedish Dockworkers Union Supports Hamas

The Swedish Dockworkers Union, one of Sweden’s smallest and most hardcore communist unions, has decided to order its members to block Israeli ships. In the official mumbo-jumbo, the union claims that its action is aimed at Israel because of the Jewish state’s alleged violation on international law. Sending thousands of rockets against Israeli civilians is apparently in compliance with international law as no action is taken against Iranian ships.

Sweets for the children in Gaza is a human right whereas life in peace and security for the children in Israel is not.

Let’s Sing ‘We Shall Overcome’

Kent Persson och Johan Westerholm, two of the Swedish blogosphare’s most aggressive political bloggers—whose speciality is ad hominem arguments—, has written an article urging fellow bloggers and politicians not to engage in negative campaigning and personal attacks. I laugh out load. It’s like watching Ann Coulter sob about being attacked by liberals who object to being described as fascists.

I note that Kent Persson has cleansed his blog comments of the many xenophobic remarks that used to be there. Perhaps he’s born again?

My Day in Pictures

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Normally, this is a blog about politics and religion. But when the summer comes, I try to get away from my computer and enjoy the sun in the outdoors. Living in Scandinavia means spending nine months a year indoors, so I need this.

Today I spent at the beach. The water is still too cold for a proper swim, but I dared to dip my foot.

Occupation Is Only Bad When Israel Is Involved

The Swedish dockworkers have no problem with China, India, Morocco, Burma, Pakistan, Turkey, or any of the other nations thriving on “occupied land”. Only Israel is singled out—again! To suggest that it has to do with it being the world’s only Jewish state would only be dismissed as the “anti-Semitism card”, used by evil Zionists with the intention to silence criticism of Israel—the only nation ever criticised.

Midsummer Eve

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Midsummer Eve, the day before Midsummer Day, is a major holiday in Sweden. In the Swedish calendar, that day is today. Therefore, my husband and I will travel to my parents’ summer residence and celebrate Midsummer with my family. Thanks to modern mobile technology, I’m able to do some sporadic blogging over the holiday weekend, but I will not answer emails until Monday.

Seen in the picture is the 1897 painting “Midsummer Dance” by Swedish artist Anders Zorn. A classic.

Paul McCartney Is Morphing into Barbra Streisand

The headline I picked up from the comments section of this Sun article about Paul McCartney comparing global-warming scepticism to Holocaust denying. I never liked McCartney, and I like him even less after this stupid remark. The trend is to bully sceptics, but what the global-warming alarmists refuse to get into their smug heads is that argumentum ad populum is a classic fallacious argument. Scepticism is good. To make a case for a theory based on its popularity is simply silly.

Cultural Communism

Dilsa Demirbag-Sten makes the case for cultural communism in Swedish newspaper Dagens Nyheter.

Diversity is bad. The government should force the majority culture on people. Parents should no longer be allowed to pick the school best suited for their children. Religious and cultural identities should be kept strictly private and hidden not to disturb the Christian secularists.

It’s all bullshit. Demirbag-Sten is wrong. People are not collective slaves to one national culture. We are individuals who belong to various groups of people—some identities we pick ourselves, others we inherit from our parents. Being “Swedish” is hopefully just one of many identities. Personally, I’m Swedish, Jewish, European, male, and gay. It’s insulting to suggest that only one of these identities is legit when the truth is that I have more in common with a gay Jew in Cork than with a straight Swede in Stockholm. And I don’t think it’s at all strange that Swedish Muslims feel the same way about Muslim brothers and sisters in other countries.

Dilsa Demirbag-Sten doesn’t like the way Swedish authorities organise our multicultural society. That is why she wants the government to work against diversity. I have a better and far more radical solution. The government should stop trying to organise people’s lives. Let people do what they want. If the result is a Sweden of several religious and cultural groups living parallel lives in isolated communities, so be it. As long as individuals are free to leave their group, I see no problem with such a multicultural society.

Reflections on the Forty-First Anniversary of the Stonewall Riots

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It all began on this day in 1969. Had it not been for those brave queers at the Stonewall Inn, the situation for gay people in the Western world might still have been like it is in Russia, where the authorities discriminate openly and the police beat our sisters and brothers into submission. Gay people who live in Western Europe, Israel, Australia, New Zealand, Canada, and liberal America sometimes forget how privileged we are. Many of us still struggle with discrimination, hate crime, and unjust laws. But we must not forget that the majority of gay people still lack the most basic human rights. In the Muslim world, the death penalty is still a real threat to people who fall in love with someone of the same sex. And in Christian Africa, legislators try to please an increasingly homophobic church by adding ever-tougher sentences to already harsh anti-gay laws. Even in countries that officially recognise gay rights, people are treated with contempt and become victims of brutality merely for being gay. Organisations devoted to homophobia are mushrooming in many parts of the world—often with active support from the Vatican and other powerful Christian institutions.

It’s easy to become depressed. Therefore, it is important to remember the Stonewall Riots and the extraordinary progress that gay people in the West have experienced in the past forty-one years. If we keep it up, we might live in a near-perfect world in the next century. China is showing a willingness to embrace gay rights, India is slowly ridding itself from the homophobic legislation it inherited from Britain, and many countries are debating marriage equality. I would not be surprised if both China and India have same-sex marriage within a few decades.

We should celebrate our achievements, but we are not done until all people are free to love whomever their heart desires.

Jesus Was Not Crucified, He Just Drank Too Much

Swedish theologian Gunnar Samuelsson says Jesus may not have been crucified, as there is no evidence to indicate that the Romans crucified prisoners 2,000 years ago. There is, however, evidence of heavy wine consumption. I think Jesus might have been extremely drunk after eights days of Passover festivities. That would explain the Resurrection: Jesus was drunk, passed out at Golgotha, slept for two days, and then woke up hungry and confused in a cave on the outskirt of Jerusalem. Mystery solved. Let’s move on.

Your Son Will Be Fabulous

A friend texted me earlier today. He is puzzled about his son’s sexuality. When asked what he wanted to be when he grown up, the son replied, “I want to be Lady Gaga.” My friends wonders if this perhaps is a sign that his son is gay. I told my friend that many straight eight-year-olds love Gaga, but that his son’s wish to be her probably means that he, regardless of sexual orientation, will one day be a fabulous man. Boring loser boys want to be Justin Bieber.